My Trauma — Three Buckets for Healing
A gentle framework exploring Safety, Security, and Stability as the foundations of healing.
Printable worksheets and healing tools — gifts for the path. Download, print, and use them for yourself or with the clients and loved ones in your care.
A gentle framework exploring Safety, Security, and Stability as the foundations of healing.
Map your safe people, safe places, grounding techniques, and your reason for staying strong.
A weekly worksheet for collecting the things that feel safe, steady, and worth keeping close.
An expressive art prompt to draw what you feel — no wrong colors, no wrong answers.
Give your chaos a name and a shape so you can take back your power over it.
Build the calm, steady inner place that stays with you — even when the storm is loud.
Roots, trunk, leaves, and flowers — a beautiful map of who you are and what helps you grow.
Reflect on eight areas of life and identify where to invest your time and energy next.
Identify the emotion you're feeling and the color that represents it — a gentle tool for naming what's inside.
Name your triggers as raindrops, then fill your umbrella with the protective factors that keep you safe.
A creative reflection on the supports and connections that lift you up and let you soar.
Map your safe people, places, things, activities, and protective factors — your full safety umbrella.
Like a lotus rising from the mud, reflect on your roots, strengths, struggles, and bloom.
Check in daily, color it in, and reflect on your highlights, challenges, and the week ahead.
A collage worksheet for capturing meaningful memories from childhood through the future you dream of.
The beginning of transformation — a worksheet for where you are at the start of the journey.
Emerging into who you are becoming — a worksheet for celebrating transformation and flight.
Five arms — physical, emotional, social, spiritual, occupational — that support a balanced, meaningful life.
Color where you feel each emotion in your body and notice the wisdom your body is offering.
Imagine and design a device or tool that supports your recovery journey — creative play with purpose.
Understand the seven-stage cycle of addiction so you can recognize the pattern and break it.
How events, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and actions connect — and how changing one changes them all.
Sensory, breath, body, mind, and self-talk tools to bring you back to the here and now.
Recognize the influences that help you thrive and the ones that make life harder — and build more of the first.
A side-by-side reflection on the mindsets that keep us stuck and the ones that move us forward.
Understand, recognize, and respond with care to the three core stress responses your body uses to keep you safe.
Build a personal toolbox of coping cards, grounding objects, support people, and emergency contacts.
A guided meditation and drawing exercise for releasing what's heavy and inviting trust back in.
Hang your prayers, intentions, and requests for support — a sacred space for faith and reflection.
Write a poem about the people, places, and moments you're thankful for — gratitude as a healing practice.
Write a letter of thanks to someone who showed up for you — gratitude that heals both giver and receiver.
List five strategies across physical, mental, social, spiritual, and creative categories to care for the whole you.
A guided self-assessment through the six stages — precontemplation to relapse — to find where you are today.
Understand the prefrontal cortex, amygdala, and hippocampus under stress — and what helps your brain heal.
Soothe, Accept, Focus, Engage — a four-part framework for healthy coping when emotions feel overwhelming.
Fill a jar each day of the week with five things you're grateful for — a simple practice with profound impact.
Sort the people in your life into healthy and unhealthy supports — and build a plan to strengthen what helps.
A side-by-side reflection on the parts you hide and the person you're becoming — bridging the gap with intention.
Seven gentle prompts for shadow work — meeting hidden parts of yourself with compassion and integration.
A six-step worksheet for taking responsibility, making amends, and committing to change — healing as a path forward.
Five chapters — Early Life, Challenges, Turning Point, Recovery, Future Self — for reflection, healing, and recovery.
Explore your identity, values, strengths, and purpose through eight gentle prompts of self-discovery.
Imagine and draw the freedom you long for, then describe what you see, feel, and do in that life.
Reclaim your voice, choices, and worth — eight steps to define power, protect it, and live it.
Discover where you place control in your life and learn to shift focus to what you truly can change.
Track two grounding techniques each day, notice how they feel, and build a steady daily practice.
Notice. Name. Navigate. Track stressors, body responses, emotions, and the coping skills that help most.
Recognize ten common unhelpful thinking patterns — and learn to challenge them with healthier perspectives.
What radical honesty looks like in real moments — examples, reflection questions, and a weekly commitment.
From hiding to healing — reflect on the cost of dishonesty, envision truth, and make reparations to repair trust.
Bring your house back together — a side-by-side reflection on who you really are and who you show the world.
An expressive art worksheet exploring both sides of the mask — what the world sees and what lives beneath.
Fill the heart with feelings, thoughts, hopes, and fears. A safe space to be completely honest with yourself.
Design a lantern that represents your truth — colors, symbols, and words that light your way home to yourself.
Paint your highs and lows — an expressive art space to honor the challenges climbed and the low points endured.
Track real situations, thoughts, emotions, and the cognitive distortions that shape how you feel and act.
A color-coded timeline from birth to present — map the events, achievements, and recovery efforts that shaped you.
Decision, event, effect, outcome, next choice — see the chain reaction and discover where you can choose differently.
A guided board-game timeline through life stages — fill in events, choices, and the impact each one had.
Shake. Listen. Ground. Renew. A mindful craft project for calm, connection, and healing — with intention prompts.
Slow your breath, calm your mind, feel more in control — a guided practice with reflection prompts and calming visualizations.
Anxiety tries to change the past or control the future. Bring it back to the now with this gentle reflection worksheet.
Explore mixed feelings about change without judgment — benefits and costs of staying the same vs. making a change.
A seven-step guide — identify, understand, brainstorm, evaluate, choose, plan, and reflect — for solving problems one step at a time.
Learn the difference between staying stuck in complaint and moving forward by reframing situations as solvable problems.
Understand ten common emotion families — happy, sad, fear, anger, disgust, surprise, love, shame, jealousy, calm — and check in with yourself.
Primary emotions are the building blocks; secondary emotions are the combinations. Learn to identify both and what lives underneath.
Name it to tame it. Tools, a calm-down plan, and reflection prompts for understanding and responding to emotions in healthy ways.
Understanding the impact, building compassion, supporting healing — how trauma changes a child's brain and what helps them heal.
Understanding the impact, building awareness, supporting healing — how trauma shapes the adult brain and the path back to safety.
Explore how trauma shows up across eight life domains — and identify strengths, supports, and one step toward healing in each area.
Understanding my story, creating my path forward — a gentle intake-style worksheet for sharing what brings you to counseling.
Learn about PTSD, check the symptoms you notice, and identify what helps — a compassionate self-assessment for understanding and healing.
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